Woman to be....

   Every creature is created with a purpose, in this world. Apart from that purpose, every creature has it's own passion or vision. I hope woman is also included among these creatures. But knowingly or unknowingly, she herself forgets, what she dreamt of and sometimes, she is made to forget her dreams, as we called it "the need of an hour".

  It's quite surprising why men who ignores their dream due to the need of an hour can be hand picked where as the count of women goes infinite. The society and the family which is the tiny part of the society loads women with various purposes. I trust if we correct the first small unit family it will be easy to correct the society and there is even a chance to get corrected automatically. After a period of time women herself is fed with the thought she is meant to full fill her family's dream. Many men expect a women to play various roles in a daily life. she should look appealing to the eyes of her man however tired she was. (Only to her man's Eyes). She should be the tireless cook who should cook like his mother, she needs to find out what he likes, what the children like, and the end of the day some of her old friends or sibling need to remind her that she likes that. She wants to be the perfect mother who knows to surf the internet nook and corner for the child's education, at the same time she has to know the traditional home remedies for every cold and flu. She must play the role of a mother in the morning, cook in the noon to fill their tummies, and friend in the evening who can suggest some ideas for the work pressure and also another role to quench the physical thirst at night. The demands imposed on her have to be finished though she is undergoing many mental and physical agonies. she can't ignore any of these.

  She should be the maid around the clock so that the house can be clean. People believe if only women keeps the house clean Goddess Lakshmi and Saraswati will visit. I wonder What goddess Saraswati has done with these people so called educated minds. She needs to face so many criticisms like this is why women should not be educated, it is of vain once they get into a family life. Their education is useless as though women is praying to God that they need to beget a child and quit from their work and education. She should also smile at the judgement that women don't have much knowledge about news, politics, sports, and technology. Especially women at work my goodness they do every work without knowing the work politics. Give a very big pause for this rusted brain. 

 Think deeply just have a try to let women live her life as she wish. The basic expectation of women is a day should start with the positivity she should be appreciated for her new endeavours, it may be an entrepreneurship or a new dish she cooked. She needs to be recognised as a person in a family discussion. She has to be portrayed with dignity before the children. She needs non sexual touch from her man which gives her consolement and energy which is the rarest. Eventually she is a pathetic soul which needs self respect. She is not ignorant she has invested her passion and dignity for the future of her children. Beware of that energy bundle it is a non renewable energy once it is lost it is lost forever.