BE INDEPENDENT

                                            

   Dependency is a good emotion,  which is a prominent character of human , but it depends on whom and what we are depending.  When we completely rely on anyone or anything,  it becomes addiction and it is tough to get cured.

Financial Independence:

       Of course,  it is the first and foremost criteria, in which one must be independent. Whom your parents would be, whom your life partner would be that doesn't matter, create your own identity,  particularly  in terms of financial need. Rather than robbing and begging,  all jobs are really respectable. Do what you wish, Dream big, Work hard and Create your financial independence.  Get empowered. 

Social Independence: 

      The Structure of our society,  is to live in groups as family, friends, community, etc. It is not a big fault. It is the basic set-up, that kids depend on their parents and guardians, till certain age. And parents need to depend on their children at their second childhood.  This is inevitable.  There will be people around us to support.  Get their help, if they lend. But try to survive without them. It will be useful to us at all means. This will protect you from not getting hurt at times and one can prepare our mind to live without depending on others always.


Emotional Independence:

       We bring up kids, by creating this emotional dependence.  From their early stage, maximum kids are not doing things for their interest, but to get appreciation. When a baby started to walk,  every person around him or her claps together. So at a point of time, it gets registered , that when we achieve something,  People will appreciate. As soon as they grow up, when they fail to achieve or when they can't get appreciations, they are unable to handle it and they get break down.

     "Being a boy, you are not supposed to cry." We are much get used to it. All emotions such as happiness, sadness, anger, shy,etc are common to all. It is not based on gender. Even if it is boys, let them regret for their mistakes and cry out aloud. They will feel free. Instead of that, don't hide your emotions, or don't express your emotions, according to the surrounding. Be emotionally independent.

                It is very easy to offer a piece of advice, but it is very hard to follow in our day-to-day life.  Try as much as possible to be independent in all ways. MAKE YOUR OWN IMPACT.


 


Comments

  1. jamy29 November 2021 at 05:19

    Be Independent 😃😃

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  2. Unknown29 November 2021 at 05:54

    Sure dear to make an own way from an own feet. You made it👍 great effort for this step. Keep going...

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